As part of my Top 10 to see at the Toronto Fringe this year, She’s Black, He’s Jewish, They’re Married…Oy vey! absolutely does not disappoint. This interesting take on relationships, of all types, and what makes them long-lasting is not only incredibly funny. It is also incredibly honest.
Epstein and Hassan have been married for 27 years. To our present standards, I’d say this is a lifetime. While taking in their show, which is more like a snippet of their life together, I can see why their relationship is quite successful.
From the moment they step on-stage, one cannot help but notice their chemistry. They are also both very good at engaging with the audience. I, honestly, laughed from beginning to the very end. They discuss some very serious topics, oftentimes in manners that may make some of you blush. Nonetheless, the whole show is as truthful as you may get about some of these issues, while also having a great laugh about them. Here is why.
Sex
It is always important to talk about sex. It also just as important to communicate what works and does not work with your partner. What matters is that you both come… wink, wink.
Race/Culture
Regardless of etnicity or skin tone, respect must be mutual. Epstein and Hassan’s Black/Jew Technology dictates this, and also the importance of forgiveness. You need to know when a conflict is not warranted or unnecessary.
Politics
Of course, politics come into play in mixed-culture relationships. Points of view may differ, as they often do. This is not to take away from the notion that you sometimes will have to agree to disagree.
The Three Fs – Food. Fucking. Forgiveness.
The take home message is basically: Nourish each other. Make sure you come. And always have each other’s back. In every relationship that matters to you, it is key that you take note of this simple yet important points.
Audience participation.
If you’re shy or not interested, you always have a choice to just enjoy and be a voyeur. Now, if you’re a bit of an exhibitionist, you’ll enjoy it plenty. The take away point is this is a safe space in which to have fun.
And if you take my word for it, there is plenty to laugh about, as well as, ponder about. The laughs and dialogue will continue way after Epstein and Hassan finish the show. Hence, I tell you, grab your tickets and go check out their show!
She’s Black, He’s Jewish, They’re Married…Oy vey! plays at the Toronto Fringe three more times. From Thursday, July 10 to Saturday, July 12th, at the Annex Theatre. For show times and more info, visit the Fringe’s website here.